Everyone has demons in their closet that they are challenged by. As a coach I hear things like, I'm too fat, I'm too skinny, I'm too short, I'm too tall, I have bad skin, I'm going bald, I'm going grey, I'm too old, I'm too young, I'm not smart enough, I'm too shy, I'm too loud, No-one likes me, I can't spell, I'm not a good speaker, It's because I'm female, It's because I'm gay, It's because I'm Asian..............the list goes on.
STOP RIGHT NOW!
Love yourself for who you are now. Not when you've lost 30 kilos, not when you get a partner, Right Now. Be your biggest mentor not your worst critic. Then seek to understand & accept others for who they are. Find the goodness in them & yes I know sometimes that can be challenging. You only see the outside shell of others. We have no idea what battles they are facing even if they are behaving badly and even if their values are different to yours. The choice is yours. Something to ponder.
So many people judge others and love the drama of it all. Don't throw stones at glass houses.
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